What Happened after IT Happened
So there I was, down on the ground with an oddly swollen and painful ankle, and no one was responding to my calls. (FYI, if you ever find yourself in a similar position, don’t call for a person – yell HELP! My neighbor later told me he heard me called ROB! and thought to himself, boy that Rob sure is in trouble!)
I called again, and one of the neighbors finally looked over. When he did he started running towards me, as did the others. Bless their hearts! They came with eyes wide and asked “what should we do?”
It’s funny now to think back to that moment. There I was laying on the ground obviously hurt in some way, and they were asking me what to do! I have Red Cross First Aid training and if I was the one coming to aid I would have done things differently. But that never crossed my mind in the moment. My only thought was to get in the car and get to the emergency room that was a little more than a mile away.
“What should we do?” “Get my husband,” I replied. “He’s in the house.” They did and together they half carried, half walked me to the car. I think someone pushed a little too hard on a rib and I felt it give way, but that was the least of my worries.
The ride to the emergency room seemed SO SLOW! So much TRAFFIC! I was breathing in and out slow measured breaths to keep the pain at bay, protecting my swollen ankle from touching any part of the car.
FINALLY – the emergency room! Someone saw us coming and came out to greet us, bringing a wheelchair. But NO PAIN MEDS until the x-rays were done. And they had to MOVE MY ANKLE for some of the x-rays. They also confirmed my right ankle was sprained, and my back was fine. But then – morphine! And as I felt the morphine move into my body – RELIEF! I was more myself again – I could joke – and express my gratitude for the help I was receiving!
My ankle was carefully placed in a splint and I was sent by ambulance to the hospital emergency room where ortho people could set the ankle and place it in another splint. My first ambulance ride! (wow those gurnys are narrow!)
And then two ortho interns – a first year and a fifth year – forced my foot back into place using their bodies to do so. I was expecting a great deal of pain (think Gray’s Anatomy ortho adjustments) yet it wasn’t terrible. With the x-ray confirming my bones were where they needed to be, I then waited, and waited to be released to go home, which finally happened by 10:00 pm. I was to be scheduled for surgery that next week as hardware was needed to put my bones back where they belonged.
Below are the xrays taken before they set the bones.
On all these trips my husband and daughter followed me and sat with me, keeping me company during the waiting, and showing their care and love. I am so grateful to them, to the ER staff in both places, the ambulance folks, and to my neighbors who gave me their aid that got me going in the right direction!
The worst has happened. An accident, a misstep of some kind. A diagnosis. A shocking revelation. The unexpected. Maybe it happened a while ago. Who helped you during that time in your life? Who can you thank God for?
Maybe it is happening now. Who has God placed around you who could help? Are you willing to ask for it? There are times when we simply aren’t able to help ourselves.
66 times in the book of the Psalm the word “help” is spoken of. God is also your help. Take a little time to reflect on Psalm 22:24 below. Talk with God about what you notice.
Psalm 22:24 (NIV)
For he has not despised or scorned the suffering of the afflicted one;
he has not hidden his face from him but has listened to his cry for help.